Community Guidelines

The rules that keep this kind.

Buddly exists so adults can find platonic company for social activities. These guidelines are strictly enforced — violations lead to suspension or a permanent ban, and illegal activity is reported to authorities.

This is not a dating or adult-services platform. It never will be.

Automatic enforcement: any account that receives 50 or more reports from different members within 30 days is permanently deleted, and admins are notified immediately.

Report-based enforcement: every report — fake profile, harassment, threats, scam or fraud, sexual solicitation, inappropriate behavior, underage user, illegal activity, spam or other safety concerns — suspends the reported member instantly while our safety team reviews. Confirmed violations are permanently banned.

Zero tolerance: prohibited content detected in chats, requests or profiles triggers an instant ban and an automatic safety-team review. Banned accounts cannot log in, message or appear anywhere on the platform.

Sexual services or prostitution

Buddly is strictly platonic. Offering or requesting sexual services leads to an instant, permanent ban.

Sexual solicitation

Any sexual advances, requests or suggestive propositions toward another member.

Exploitation of minors

Any content or behavior involving minors. Reported to authorities immediately — zero tolerance.

Harassment

Repeated unwanted messages, pressure, or any behavior that makes another member uncomfortable.

Threats

Threatening language or intimidation of any kind, in chat or in person.

Violence

Violent behavior or incitement to violence, on or off the platform.

Stalking

Following, monitoring or repeatedly contacting someone against their wishes.

Blackmail

Threatening to reveal information or images to pressure, extort or control anyone.

Fraud

Deception for financial or personal gain, including fake identities used for gain.

Scams

Asking for money, gift cards, deposits or financial details, or any deceptive scheme.

Illegal activities

Anything illegal — including using the platform to plan or facilitate unlawful acts.

Drug-related transactions

Buying, selling, offering or arranging drugs or controlled substances.

Impersonation

Pretending to be someone else, using stolen photos, or misrepresenting your identity.

Doxxing

Publishing or threatening to publish anyone's private information.

Hate-based abuse

Discrimination or abuse based on religion, caste, gender, sexuality, disability or appearance.

Sharing private information without consent

Posting anyone's address, phone number, email or private details without their consent.

What we love to see

Meet in busy, public places
Be punctual and communicate clearly
Respect boundaries — always
Keep chats friendly and platonic
Leave honest, fair reviews
Report anything that feels wrong

See something that breaks these rules? Visit the Safety Center to report it.